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#WednesdayWisdom #009: Brothers: It’s Not Good For A Man To Be Alone. But Which Man?
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#WednesdayWidsom #008: Jada Pinkett-Smith Says “Stop Begging for Acknowledgement!”
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#WednesdayWisdom #007: Bill Cosby’s Lawyer, Monique Pressley, Believes She’s Right
I’m lovin’ me some Monique Pressley. She is killin’ the game right now! Her stringent defense of my childhood hero, Bill Cosby, is nothing less than spectacular. Ms. Pressley is the lead counsel on Bill Cosby’s defense team. I first caught wind of her on television...
#WednesdayWisdom #006: Making Stupid Mistakes Makes You an Expert Decision Maker in Your Relationship
When I was doing research for my book, His Leadership Her Trust, I came cross two brothers, Herbert and Stuart Dreyfus, who did some research on the difference between how novices make decisions vs. how experts make decision. They identified a five-stage pathway from...
#WednesdayWisdom #005: Two Ways A Leader Overcomes Relationship Setbacks
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#WednesdayWisdom #004: Let’s Get Back in the Fight…But Wisely This Time
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#WednesdayWisdom #003: Turn-Down For What…To Prepare for Your Purpose
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The Heath & Bernie Show (Pt. 2): 10-Day European Adventure
In October 1997, Bernie and I blazed trails and went on a 3-week honeymoon to Europe We covered Malaga, Spain; Oberstrofen, Germany...with day trips to Innsburck, Austria and Zurich, Switzerland; Milan, Italy, and lastly, the Canary Islands. That was...
#WednesdayWisdom #002: Don’t Get Caught Slippin’
Last Wednesday, there was yet another mass shooting incident in San Bernadino, CA. The week before that, it was a planned parenthood clinic in Colorado Springs, CO. Two weeks before that, I was actually in France the day of the Paris terrorist attack. As of December...
#WednesdayWisdom #001: 100 Pastors Meeting with Donald Trump
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Doing Nothing is Just As Bad As Doing Something Wrong
I just helped one of my clients break up with his girlfriend. Derwyn and Lisa (we’ll call them) were in a 2-year long distance relationship. They both love each other. But Derwyn’s complaint was that Lisa wasn’t showing enough commitment to their relationship. She’d...
GUYS: How to Get Out of the Dreaded “Friend” Status Without Playing Yourself
When I was in junior high school, I mustered up the courage to ask a girl I had a huge crush on “Will you go with me?” “No. Heath, you’re like a brother to me.” she replied. “Say What Now!” A brother does not feel toward you what I’m feeling…I thought to myself. How...
RUSSELL WILSON: If God Really Told You to Lead Her, Then Here’s 2 Critical Things You Must Do to be Her Leader
I am really intrigued with this one. When I first heard the story that Seattle Seahawks’ quarterback, Russell Wilson, has a new girlfriend, singer Ciara, it didn’t register a blip on my radar of care or concern. Then when I heard they were trying not to have sex, I...
5 Steps to Reinventing Your Marriage…Before the Thrill is Really Gone
Every marriage needs to hit the reset button every 3-5 years. Why? Because people grow. And you encounter…what I call…the "new needs". Remember when you where 20 years old? Did you have the same social, physical, financial, or emotional needs as you did when you were...
4 Ways to Deal with Your Mate’s Insecurities Without Breaking Up
“And who’s that?!?!” “That’s my co-worker.” “Why they have your cell number and texting you this late?” “Chris, stop trippin’! You always do that! I don’t question you…or ask who’s texting you!” Insecure people argue about everything…and nothing. They’re constantly...
5 Ways You Could Be Being Unfaithful to Your Mate Without Even Knowing It
Forget the words adultery, affair, or infidelity for now. Just because you haven’t cheated on your mate or haven’t had an emotional affair doesn’t mean you haven’t been unfaithful to him/her. The myth about faithfulness, from the eyes of the recipient, is my mate will...
CONTROVERSY: Should Wives Submit to Husbands OR Spouses Submit one to Another? Here’s the Difference
I was watching Preachers of Detroit, a show about six preachers in Detroit and their families. On episode 3, the wives and daughters of the pastors, Bishop Corletta Vaughn, and famous gospel singer/evangelist Dorinda Clark Cole were eating lunch at a restaurant. A...
Are Women Running from Bad Men to A Good Woman?
The subplot of the play was: Crys was in love with a drug dealer who promised her the world. But he cheated on her, lied to her, and broke her heart. Now dejected, Crys decided to give up on men and give women a try. Skeeerrrt! Hold up! WTHot-sauce??? Given this was a...
Not Feeling Valued? 3 Loving Ways to Show Your Mate Your Value and Worth
The need to feel valued, special, and important is essential to any relationship. Who wants to be with someone who doesn’t value them? Yet, many men and women suffer quietly with feelings of neglect, disrespect, and devaluation. Sometimes not intentionally. Lynae did...
God Doesn’t Trust Your Marriage Because You Don’t Know Its Purpose
There’s nothing more beautiful than seeing a couple discover the purpose of their marriage. It’s like they were meant to be together…to fulfill a purpose greater than themselves. Just look at the lives of our beloved trailblazers Lamar and Ronnie Tyler, the creators...