The notion that you have to have everything all together in order to be a good spouse is a lie from the pit of hell. Don’t nobody have their life all together…to the point where they can be a good spouse.
The key is working on getting your life together…over time. And that takes growth…growth that you go through together as you build and develop your marriage over time.
Invest in your growth as a spouse and register for the Relationship Bootcamp for Newlyweds. We can help you figure out what things each of you need to work on to be better husband or wife.
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#WednesdayWisdom #004: Let’s Get Back in the Fight…But Wisely This Time
Upcoming Events: -- The Wiggins Household Summit Everyone agrees family is most important. But how much time do you spend preparing for your 2016 family goals? Join the Wiggins Household for our annual summit as we discuss and prepare for...
#WednesdayWisdom #003: Turn-Down For What…To Prepare for Your Purpose
Upcoming Events: -- The Wiggins Household Summit Everyone agrees family is most important. But how much time do you spend preparing for your 2016 family goals? Join the Wiggins Household for our annual summit as we discuss and prepare for...
The Heath & Bernie Show (Pt. 2): 10-Day European Adventure
In October 1997, Bernie and I blazed trails and went on a 3-week honeymoon to Europe We covered Malaga, Spain; Oberstrofen, Germany...with day trips to Innsburck, Austria and Zurich, Switzerland; Milan, Italy, and lastly, the Canary Islands. That was...
#WednesdayWisdom #002: Don’t Get Caught Slippin’
Last Wednesday, there was yet another mass shooting incident in San Bernadino, CA. The week before that, it was a planned parenthood clinic in Colorado Springs, CO. Two weeks before that, I was actually in France the day of the Paris terrorist attack. As of December...
#WednesdayWisdom #001: 100 Pastors Meeting with Donald Trump
Upcoming Dates: Relationship Bootcamp for Couples Saturday December 5 9:00 AM - 12:00 PMRelationship Bootcamp for SinglesSaturday December 12 9:00 AM - 12:00 PMSee more dates >>> Contact us for group or special reservation Get your...
Doing Nothing is Just As Bad As Doing Something Wrong
I just helped one of my clients break up with his girlfriend. Derwyn and Lisa (we’ll call them) were in a 2-year long distance relationship. They both love each other. But Derwyn’s complaint was that Lisa wasn’t showing enough commitment to their relationship. She’d...
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I need some desperate help in order to save my relationship with my girlfriend. We have been together for a little over 3yrs and our relationship seems to built around our ability to take care of each other on business. We both have come out of bad marriages and when we met we both fell hard for each other. I have one 20 yr old son and an older stepdaughter, while Kalima has a 17yr handicap daughter a 14yr old daughter who lives with her father and a 5yr and 11yr old. I thought I was ready to jump back into family life after my wife passed in 2014, but I have let my so called life experience cause me to become complacent. On top of that I have been drinking more than usual, and it has caused a great strain on our relationship as well as my children. She thinks that I don’t love her enough to care, but I felt that my 24yrs of marriage should speak for itself….WRONG. I need to learn how to be a better partner and live a long life with her, somehow I just can’t seem to figure it out. We have had two sessions of relationship counseling but I allowed my drinking to be an excuse not to go back. And even if she may not want to participate right now I feel if she sees me trying it will help to resolve some of our differences. Also after 18yrs with one company I was let go in 2015. I work as an independent contractor for a courier service so I spend alot of time driving.
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My name Tom Dorsey
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