The notion that you have to have everything all together in order to be a good spouse is a lie from the pit of hell. Don’t nobody have their life all together…to the point where they can be a good spouse.
The key is working on getting your life together…over time. And that takes growth…growth that you go through together as you build and develop your marriage over time.
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She’s Venting: Husbands Helping Out & the Role of Compromise in Relationships
Apparently this woman wants to vent. Back to back to back questions about what she thinks her husband should be doing. That's ok gurl! Purge! Get it out! We are here for it! You're gonna want to hear our response to this lady's latest two questions about husbands...
Should Husbands (Besides Me) Cook Too
Decades ago, the topic of husbands cooking in a marriage used to fall along gender lines. But now, the responsibility of cooking is more egalitarian. In other words, husbands be up in the kitchen too. But how often...thought? Are husbands carrying their fair share of...
Heath & Bernie’s VLOG Blooper Footage – @ Allen Pond
So...Bernie and I decided to do a video update of the new services we now offer and answer some relationship questions we received. We thought we'd be fancy and go to our favorite park, Allen Pond, and shoot the video outside. But what we didn't anticipate is all the...
It’s Been A Great Run, But the Relationship Bootcamp is Officially…
It's been a great run. But after 17 years, Bernie and I have decided to retire the Relationship Bootcamp. I know...I know. You're devastated. Us too. But it was time. Running around in the woods for 5 hours on the weekend takes its toll on a brotha. Plus, it was time...
Things Bernie & I Do to Make Our Marriage Better – Part 3
This is the 3rd and final part of Bernie and I sharing what we did when we started off 19 years ago to make our marriage good, and what we still do to make it even better. If you missed Part 2, watch it here. In this episode, we talk about why marriage works best when...
Things Bernie & I Do to Make Our Marriage Better – Part 2
This is Part 2 of Bernie and I sharing what we did when we started off 19 years ago to make our marriage good, and what we still do to make it even better. If you missed Part 1, watch it here. Enjoy. I hope this proves helpful to your relationship. Bootcamp Dates:...
I need some desperate help in order to save my relationship with my girlfriend. We have been together for a little over 3yrs and our relationship seems to built around our ability to take care of each other on business. We both have come out of bad marriages and when we met we both fell hard for each other. I have one 20 yr old son and an older stepdaughter, while Kalima has a 17yr handicap daughter a 14yr old daughter who lives with her father and a 5yr and 11yr old. I thought I was ready to jump back into family life after my wife passed in 2014, but I have let my so called life experience cause me to become complacent. On top of that I have been drinking more than usual, and it has caused a great strain on our relationship as well as my children. She thinks that I don’t love her enough to care, but I felt that my 24yrs of marriage should speak for itself….WRONG. I need to learn how to be a better partner and live a long life with her, somehow I just can’t seem to figure it out. We have had two sessions of relationship counseling but I allowed my drinking to be an excuse not to go back. And even if she may not want to participate right now I feel if she sees me trying it will help to resolve some of our differences. Also after 18yrs with one company I was let go in 2015. I work as an independent contractor for a courier service so I spend alot of time driving.
My name Tom Dorsey