You can take pre-marital counseling and be ready to “get married“. But “marriage” is an ever evolving anamorphosis of unexpected changes. And you must adjust to those changes if your marriage is going to last.
Some people you go into marriage thinking that their “readiness” is sufficient for what they expected. Then the unexpected happens, which it always does. That’s when they quickly realize they’re actually not ready and it’s time to adjust.
Register for the Relationship Bootcamp for Newlyweds and learn what your marriage specifically needs to adjust and how to do it.
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April 29
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