The notion that you have to have everything all together in order to be a good spouse is a lie from the pit of hell. Don’t nobody have their life all together…to the point where they can be a good spouse.
The key is working on getting your life together…over time. And that takes growth…growth that you go through together as you build and develop your marriage over time.
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#WednesdayWisdom #033: Now That the Kids Are Back in School, It’s Time for You to Get Back to Your 2016 To-Do List
School is back in session. And you can tell by the pictures proud parents have posted on Facebook, Instagram, and Snapchat. From what I heard from parents, it both a happy and sad moment. Happy…because they get their kids out of their hair and back into the...
#WednesdayWisdom #032: 3 Sure-Fire Ways to Make Your Wife Want to Submit to You
SUBMISSION… is one of those dirty words in the bible that make women cringe…and distort their top lip. It triggers a guttural reaction. If you’re a woman, it’s likely, you’re reading this article to see how wrong I am…and thus, slay me in the comments section below....
#WednesdayWisdom #031: A Good Husband’s Dilemma: What if You Don’t Believe in Yourself?
Husbands, What if you don't believe in yourself? It's an issue every man has wrestles with at least once in his lifetime...no matter if he admits it or not. From the alpha-male, who beams with self-confidence...to the shy introvert, who fears confrontation. When the...
#WednesdayWisdom #030: Where Tupac Shakur Failed, Donald Trump is Succeeding
Tupac Shakur tried to follow his teachings…with the mantra of ‘Thug Life’ tattooed across his abdomen. But Donald Trump is actually doing it. Italian philosopher, Niccolo Machiavelli, wrote a book in 1513 called, The Prince. It was written to the ruling elite as a...
#WednesdayWisdom #029: Husbands…Stop Obeying Your Wife!
I was talking to a Brent, a husband of four years. He was complaining about how his wife be trippin’. Meaning, she keeps upping the ante of things she wants him to do. “As soon as I do one thing she asks, she’s quick to add on something else. I told her, ‘just give me...
#WednesdayWisdom #028: Relationship Leaders Set the Standard, Exemplify Them, and Hold Everyone Accountable to Them
The story goes like this... James and Melissa (Mel) were in year 0 of their marriage. They had only been married a few months. One issue they had to deal with was how James was going to handle his past relationships with women…many who Mel knew. After much discussion...
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I need some desperate help in order to save my relationship with my girlfriend. We have been together for a little over 3yrs and our relationship seems to built around our ability to take care of each other on business. We both have come out of bad marriages and when we met we both fell hard for each other. I have one 20 yr old son and an older stepdaughter, while Kalima has a 17yr handicap daughter a 14yr old daughter who lives with her father and a 5yr and 11yr old. I thought I was ready to jump back into family life after my wife passed in 2014, but I have let my so called life experience cause me to become complacent. On top of that I have been drinking more than usual, and it has caused a great strain on our relationship as well as my children. She thinks that I don’t love her enough to care, but I felt that my 24yrs of marriage should speak for itself….WRONG. I need to learn how to be a better partner and live a long life with her, somehow I just can’t seem to figure it out. We have had two sessions of relationship counseling but I allowed my drinking to be an excuse not to go back. And even if she may not want to participate right now I feel if she sees me trying it will help to resolve some of our differences. Also after 18yrs with one company I was let go in 2015. I work as an independent contractor for a courier service so I spend alot of time driving.
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My name Tom Dorsey
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