The notion that you have to have everything all together in order to be a good spouse is a lie from the pit of hell. Don’t nobody have their life all together…to the point where they can be a good spouse.
The key is working on getting your life together…over time. And that takes growth…growth that you go through together as you build and develop your marriage over time.
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Text-lationship vs Relationships
Texting has bogarted its way into our society as a standard way of communicating. So much so, that texting has replaced talking for a whole generation of people. But can you build a relationship with someone if you text more than you talk? Or as I call it...a...
Road Trip Episode 1 – #QoolQouplesQonqer: Norfolk, Va.
It was an uncharacteristically beautiful weekend. 78°. In February...no less! But the weekend itself...was less than beautiful. Back in the day, Bernie and I used to take weekend road trips. From the ATL, to Pigeon Forge, TN., to Quebec. We had a ball. So, as our way...
#QoolQouplesQonqer Norfolk: Pre-Road Trip Update
As we get ready for our trip, here's a quick update about our journey to Norfolk, VA. And guess what...Bernie wasn't ready when the video started...again!!! Shout out to Cynthia, Jessica, Peter, LeeLee, The Casual Travelist, and The Girl and Globe for recommendations...
And Our First Road Trip Destination Is…
We put all 11 destinations on a piece of paper, folded them up, put them in a hat, and picked. And the destination is... You have to watch the video to find out. After you do, please add some activities and attractions you want us to visit on our way there...or while...
We’re About to Announce Our First Road Trip
It' been hecka busy these last 2-weeks. Bernie and I wanted to get a video out announcing the location of our road trip earlier this week, but we just couldn't fit it in. Anyway...we will be doing a video tonight announcing our destination. If you don't know what...
We’re Intentionally Prioritizing the ‘Fun Factor’ in Our Marriage
Thanks to everyone that provided some a destination. We got some very interesting ones so far. Shout out to Mia, Pierre, Peter, Ben, Devin, Cynthia, Jill, and Jay for your suggestions. I've had some people tell me they would get back to me with their suggestions....
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I need some desperate help in order to save my relationship with my girlfriend. We have been together for a little over 3yrs and our relationship seems to built around our ability to take care of each other on business. We both have come out of bad marriages and when we met we both fell hard for each other. I have one 20 yr old son and an older stepdaughter, while Kalima has a 17yr handicap daughter a 14yr old daughter who lives with her father and a 5yr and 11yr old. I thought I was ready to jump back into family life after my wife passed in 2014, but I have let my so called life experience cause me to become complacent. On top of that I have been drinking more than usual, and it has caused a great strain on our relationship as well as my children. She thinks that I don’t love her enough to care, but I felt that my 24yrs of marriage should speak for itself….WRONG. I need to learn how to be a better partner and live a long life with her, somehow I just can’t seem to figure it out. We have had two sessions of relationship counseling but I allowed my drinking to be an excuse not to go back. And even if she may not want to participate right now I feel if she sees me trying it will help to resolve some of our differences. Also after 18yrs with one company I was let go in 2015. I work as an independent contractor for a courier service so I spend alot of time driving.
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My name Tom Dorsey
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