The notion that you have to have everything all together in order to be a good spouse is a lie from the pit of hell. Don’t nobody have their life all together…to the point where they can be a good spouse.
The key is working on getting your life together…over time. And that takes growth…growth that you go through together as you build and develop your marriage over time.
Invest in your growth as a spouse and register for the Relationship Bootcamp for Newlyweds. We can help you figure out what things each of you need to work on to be better husband or wife.
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Relationship Bootcamp for Couples
March 18
All Couples
April 29
Dating & Engaged Couples
May 20
2nd Marriage & Blended Family Couples
June 10
Newlywed Couples Married in 2015-2017
His Leadership Her Trust:
How to Find Out What His Plan Are for the Future…and If You’re Included
If you've been dating a man for a while, wouldn't you like to know what is his plans are for the future? I'm not talking about the plans for his career, travel, or side-hustle. I'm talking about plans for marriage and family. More importantly, wouldn't you want to...
How Do You Know When You’re Doing Too Much in Your Relationship
If you've been dating for a while and you feel like you've been giving and giving and giving...and not a lot of receiving, you might be doing too much in your relationship. Or maybe you're just overreacting? Which one is it? Bernie and I answer this questions for...
What Do You Do If Your Family Disapproves of Your Relationship
When Bernie and I got married, her family didn't necessarily like me. In part because, they didnt' know me. They lived in California and I lived in Maryland. I didn't meet them until the wedding. I was told I came off a little harsh. Eventually, after they got to know...
How Do You Know It’s Time to Take It to the Next Level?
The transition from 'just dating' to being exclusive...or being exclusive to getting engaged is sometimes tricky. You like 'em. But you don't know if they're the one. Or, You're all in...but they're still hedging their bets. So when do you make the decision to take it...
How to Start Over After A Breakup
Stacey and Rick broke up. They were dating for two years. They still love each other but it just didn't work out. Some time has Some time has passed...and now they are talking about getting back together again. But they are scared. They don't want to get hurt this...
Dating and Creating a God-Centered Relationship
Riddle me this: Two Christian...with two different backgrounds, with two different ways of interpreting their faith and religion, with two different perspectives of relationship...start dating. How much conflict will they encounter over how they should practice their...
I need some desperate help in order to save my relationship with my girlfriend. We have been together for a little over 3yrs and our relationship seems to built around our ability to take care of each other on business. We both have come out of bad marriages and when we met we both fell hard for each other. I have one 20 yr old son and an older stepdaughter, while Kalima has a 17yr handicap daughter a 14yr old daughter who lives with her father and a 5yr and 11yr old. I thought I was ready to jump back into family life after my wife passed in 2014, but I have let my so called life experience cause me to become complacent. On top of that I have been drinking more than usual, and it has caused a great strain on our relationship as well as my children. She thinks that I don’t love her enough to care, but I felt that my 24yrs of marriage should speak for itself….WRONG. I need to learn how to be a better partner and live a long life with her, somehow I just can’t seem to figure it out. We have had two sessions of relationship counseling but I allowed my drinking to be an excuse not to go back. And even if she may not want to participate right now I feel if she sees me trying it will help to resolve some of our differences. Also after 18yrs with one company I was let go in 2015. I work as an independent contractor for a courier service so I spend alot of time driving.
Reaching Out.
My name Tom Dorsey
301-938-9231
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