The notion that you have to have everything all together in order to be a good spouse is a lie from the pit of hell. Don’t nobody have their life all together…to the point where they can be a good spouse.
The key is working on getting your life together…over time. And that takes growth…growth that you go through together as you build and develop your marriage over time.
Invest in your growth as a spouse and register for the Relationship Bootcamp for Newlyweds. We can help you figure out what things each of you need to work on to be better husband or wife.
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March 18
All Couples
April 29
Dating & Engaged Couples
May 20
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June 10
Newlywed Couples Married in 2015-2017
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How How Long Does it Take to Know if You Want to be With Him or Not?
For some people, it's love at first sight. For others, it takes a few months. For others, a few years. So how long should it take to know if your mate's the person you want to be with? The answer is...it depends on this one thing. Watch the video below. Register the...
How Do You Build Trust When He’s Secretive With His Phone
There's a fine line between being private and being secretive. Once you cross that line over to being secretive, that's when you risk damaging the trust in your relationship. In the case of someone being secretive with their phone, how do you build that trust?...
What Do You Do If Your Mate is Too Busy for You?
We got mail! A woman sent me an email and wanted to know what to do about the man she's dating. He apparently is too busy to spend significant time with her. And given that her love language is quality time...what should she do. Bernie and I discuss what we think she...
What Are Some Practical Ways to Prepare for Marriage?
What are some practical ways to prepare for marriage? And it's not to first go to marital counseling. Here are our 5 recommendations for what we think couples should do to prepare for marriage. We did them and it worked us. Also, see how the Relationship Bootcamp...
Guy Tips on What to do for Dating Anniversaries and Special Celebrations
GUYS...have you ever had difficulty figuring out what to do for a dating anniversary’s or celebration of a special moment? Here are some tips to help you figure out what to do. LADIES...is your man struggle with this?Here are some tips to help you figure out what to...
How Do You Deal with Insecurity…Your Mate’s and Your Own?
Everybody has some form of insecurity in their relationship. And if you say you don't...you-za lie. We had to deal with Bernie's when we first got married. Like...the first 4-5 year. But being new to the marriage game, you just figure it out and push forward. But if...
I need some desperate help in order to save my relationship with my girlfriend. We have been together for a little over 3yrs and our relationship seems to built around our ability to take care of each other on business. We both have come out of bad marriages and when we met we both fell hard for each other. I have one 20 yr old son and an older stepdaughter, while Kalima has a 17yr handicap daughter a 14yr old daughter who lives with her father and a 5yr and 11yr old. I thought I was ready to jump back into family life after my wife passed in 2014, but I have let my so called life experience cause me to become complacent. On top of that I have been drinking more than usual, and it has caused a great strain on our relationship as well as my children. She thinks that I don’t love her enough to care, but I felt that my 24yrs of marriage should speak for itself….WRONG. I need to learn how to be a better partner and live a long life with her, somehow I just can’t seem to figure it out. We have had two sessions of relationship counseling but I allowed my drinking to be an excuse not to go back. And even if she may not want to participate right now I feel if she sees me trying it will help to resolve some of our differences. Also after 18yrs with one company I was let go in 2015. I work as an independent contractor for a courier service so I spend alot of time driving.
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My name Tom Dorsey
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