The notion that you have to have everything all together in order to be a good spouse is a lie from the pit of hell. Don’t nobody have their life all together…to the point where they can be a good spouse.
The key is working on getting your life together…over time. And that takes growth…growth that you go through together as you build and develop your marriage over time.
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Thank You For Your Support & One Month Celebration Report
It's been said that the difference between an expert and a novice is the expert has learned what not to do. Well, this novice is well on his way to becoming an expert because I'm learning all things not to do again. It's been a little over a month since I started this...
Miserably Married For the Last 9 out of 12 Years Pt. 1
Some time ago, I hosted a small men's group meeting at my house. About six men showed up. One of the guys was lamenting about how he and his wife had been struggling in their marriage for the last 9 out of 12 years. The D-word came up several times. Both being...
Miserably Married For the Last 9 out of 12 Years Pt. 2
Genesis Chapter 2 It wasn't until the second chapter of Genesis that God continued to paint the rest of the picture. Starting in Genesis 2:7, “the LORD God formed the man of dust from the ground and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life, and the man became a...
Miserably Married For the Last 9 out of 12 Years Pt. 3
By Heath Wiggins They were an entity of two people that acted in a unified manner towards one another and society. They were the classic definition of a group. But God didn't created marriage as a group, but as an organization with three common goals: to fill, subdue,...
Leadership Lessons from The Movie ‘The Butler’
Last Saturday, the Mrs. and I saw Lee Daniels' – The Butler. Hands down…best movie of the year! I got it winning Best Male Actor, Best Female Actress, Best Director, and Best Movie. I saw it on the weekend of the 50th anniversary of the March on Washington. So it had...
The 5 Things Leadership is Not
Before we can improve upon our leadership in our relationships, we must better understand what leadership is and what it is not! Otherwise, we might start doing stupid-stuff, crazy-stuff, rude-stuff…and pass it off as leadership. Sometimes, when trying to lead, we men...
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I need some desperate help in order to save my relationship with my girlfriend. We have been together for a little over 3yrs and our relationship seems to built around our ability to take care of each other on business. We both have come out of bad marriages and when we met we both fell hard for each other. I have one 20 yr old son and an older stepdaughter, while Kalima has a 17yr handicap daughter a 14yr old daughter who lives with her father and a 5yr and 11yr old. I thought I was ready to jump back into family life after my wife passed in 2014, but I have let my so called life experience cause me to become complacent. On top of that I have been drinking more than usual, and it has caused a great strain on our relationship as well as my children. She thinks that I don’t love her enough to care, but I felt that my 24yrs of marriage should speak for itself….WRONG. I need to learn how to be a better partner and live a long life with her, somehow I just can’t seem to figure it out. We have had two sessions of relationship counseling but I allowed my drinking to be an excuse not to go back. And even if she may not want to participate right now I feel if she sees me trying it will help to resolve some of our differences. Also after 18yrs with one company I was let go in 2015. I work as an independent contractor for a courier service so I spend alot of time driving.
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My name Tom Dorsey
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