Decades ago, the topic of husbands cooking in a marriage used to fall along gender lines. But now, the responsibility of cooking is more egalitarian. In other words, husbands be up in the kitchen too.
But how often…thought? Are husbands carrying their fair share of the culinary responsibilities? That’s the question posed to us by a married woman.
Now…even though our situation is a little different…I don’t cook – at all. But check out how I carefully answered this question without pissing off Bernie or sounding hypocritical.
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