The notion that you have to have everything all together in order to be a good spouse is a lie from the pit of hell. Don’t nobody have their life all together…to the point where they can be a good spouse.
The key is working on getting your life together…over time. And that takes growth…growth that you go through together as you build and develop your marriage over time.
Invest in your growth as a spouse and register for the Relationship Bootcamp for Newlyweds. We can help you figure out what things each of you need to work on to be better husband or wife.
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4 Reason to STOP Using Divorce as a Problem Solving Tool
For the love of God, would you please stop using divorce as a way to solve marital problems!? For the last few months, I’ve been giving relationship advice on my website. People have been submitting their questions privately, using an alias to protect their true...
Want to Fight? Fight Smart! 6 Ways to Manage Conflict
By Allison Simmons Every marriage has seasons of discord. Whenever you have two different people living under the same roof, somebody is going to be disagreeable about something! While irritations may come, they don’t have to turn into Armageddon. Here are six...
You Tired? You Done? C’mon Son! Take the Lead & Do Your Duty
‘I’m done! I can barely breathe, walk, and see at the same time.’ That’s how I feel when ‘quit’ sets in 45-minutes into my hour-long boot camp-style workout class. Then I say to myself, “If you ain’t tired…then you ain’t working hard enough.” That motivates me to keep...
Why is Your Attitude So RACHETED!? Here…Eat a Sandwich!
Serious question: What do voodoo dolls, straight pins, and loud noises have to do with creating a happy marriage? Before you click away, let me assure you that the answer to this question will likely solve some communication problems you’re having…or will have…in your...
Mature and in Your 30s. But Do You Wish You Married Younger?
In apartment 203, they are having their first dinner party. They’re doing real grown up stuff now! Married less than a year, Tony (28) and Keisha (27) Williams invited some friends over for a Saturday night soiree. The theme is ‘Pink is the New Black’. So fresh...
Letter to Robin Thicke and Paula Patton
Dear Mr. & Mrs. Robin and Paula, This separation is very unfortunate. Robin, you’re coming off the best year of your career. And Paula, you’ve reached major A-list acclaim with your acting career. You are both about to celebrate your much deserved success…alone....
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I need some desperate help in order to save my relationship with my girlfriend. We have been together for a little over 3yrs and our relationship seems to built around our ability to take care of each other on business. We both have come out of bad marriages and when we met we both fell hard for each other. I have one 20 yr old son and an older stepdaughter, while Kalima has a 17yr handicap daughter a 14yr old daughter who lives with her father and a 5yr and 11yr old. I thought I was ready to jump back into family life after my wife passed in 2014, but I have let my so called life experience cause me to become complacent. On top of that I have been drinking more than usual, and it has caused a great strain on our relationship as well as my children. She thinks that I don’t love her enough to care, but I felt that my 24yrs of marriage should speak for itself….WRONG. I need to learn how to be a better partner and live a long life with her, somehow I just can’t seem to figure it out. We have had two sessions of relationship counseling but I allowed my drinking to be an excuse not to go back. And even if she may not want to participate right now I feel if she sees me trying it will help to resolve some of our differences. Also after 18yrs with one company I was let go in 2015. I work as an independent contractor for a courier service so I spend alot of time driving.
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My name Tom Dorsey
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