Leadership in a marriage is toggled back and forth between the husband and wife, depending on what the couple is doing and who is best fit to lead the activity. In a Christian marriage, the bible teaches that the husband is generally responsible for the leadership within the relationship. After all, he initiated the marriage by proposing to her. Therefore, he is responsible for following through with the life he proposed they would live together.
But what if the husband feels like the wife is not living up to her end of the bargain? Is it the wife’s fault for not living up to those expectations. Or is it the husband’s fault for not providing the right kind of leadership for his wife to follow? Or is it both of their faults?
Bernie and I answer a gentlemen’s question about what he should do about his wife who’s he feels is not living up to his expectation. You’re gonna what to here the answer to this question.
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terms u use is judgeing, but who dose not live in glass house, tell u my story might help u
i talking to woman on line game shortly grow more that but she was in drugs, meth
in last year hafe god got into it he change hole ball game, all lies i was told all time she hurt me
who would blame me to walk away, but to god show me person she could be to me and kids but only if i keep helping her, we never met life yeat but we bonded speartly and most dont understand this,
this when god permits to people to marrie, is his choice not mine, i save i must do what i am ask
if god tells me stay with her what i must do, but our bonding lot me left in her changeing her slowly
lies need drugs all melting away, i feel god and feel her, i know what bouth want
u must accept a person for who they are with out judgement, or u never be happy u judge all
u cant change no one its unliky u change some things u do wrong dont see, as we all have this blind spot
if u cant accpet her for her probem not in her in you, in your thinking
we only be more what we are if we willing give up much tell me u willing give up your job famly every thing for god, i had to do just that but doing so god fix other things so i can live
but i had stop working to learn god, do u love her, would u ever cheat on her, u look at other weman
all quistions u must ask your self has nothing do with her but u, u rase the quistion so awaser to is with in u
not her, not how love works never has