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Leadership is Not Outcome-Specific or Purpose-Specific – Pt. 4 & 5
4. Leadership is Not Outcome-Specific We can agree that my pick-up basketball team definitely had leadership…Mr. Hot Hand. And my team won the game. But what if we lost? Was there still leadership present? Of course! For leadership is not outcome-specific. Losing...
While I Was Reading This Morning…
Reading this morning about trust…came across a phrase that blew my mind! It reminded me of some of my past experiences in church. It also reminded me about the expectations couples in their relationships. Had to share. The value that others accord members for their...
Parable: My Wife Can’t Cook!
Your wife cooks her famous pot-roast for dinner. She’s got some potatoes, your favorite vegetable, corn bread, and your favorite beverage. You know you’re about to throw-down. You sit down. Take a nice huge fork-full of potatoes and roast. Shove it in your mouth and...
Is It Okay for Women To Propose To Men?
One thing I don’t do is watch Love & Hip-Hop Atlanta. But my lunch-time crew at work does. They talk about it in such detail that I feel like I watch it. Nonetheless, when I found out that some chic, Joseline, asked her boyfriend, Stevie J, to marry her…I can’t...
I Finally Figured Out What To Do In Response To The Zimmerman Verdict
This hurt my heart…to hear this juror say that George Zimmerman was “guilty of murder, but they couldn’t prove it under the law.” I’ve been wrestling with what to do about this verdict…because feeling sad, angry, and upset doesn’t seem to be enough right now. I feel...
“…and Officer, That’s When the Fight Started” – Rule #1 of Leadership
Sabers vs. Cougars “…and officer, that’s when the fight started.” a Cougars’ varsity cheerleader exclaimed. *1 hour earlier* Its 2 minutes left in the 4th quarter of the High School Football Championship. The Sabers are up by 5. The Cougars have to drive the football...
Why His Leadership Her Trust?
Why Doesn't She Trust Him In the United States, it is a presumptive reality that men should be the leader in relationships. Think about it...from a Judeo-Christian perspective, the men are supposed to be the leaders in the family. “Man is the head and the woman is the...
So What is Leadership???
So what is leadership??? Ninety years of research, hundreds of university curricula, thousands of professors, hundreds of thousands of published articles, and millions of dollars have been spent trying to answer this question. Throughout the past nine decades,...
Leadership vs. Leadership
For those of you who like history, this will be interesting to you. But for those of you who are bottom-line people – that just like getting to the point and don’t need all the background information, this will be boring. I’m going to say something that, as a writer,...
Which Kind of Relationship Are You In? Which Kind Do You Want to be In?
It’s their first date. He’s nervous…although he’s trying to seem cool. He’s trying to impress her. She’s anxious...but trying to look poised. She’s assessing all his husband-like qualities in the car on their way to the restaurant. Because she ain’t trying to waste...